A Speller's Holiday Reflection
- Arjun Rajaram
- Jan 3
- 2 min read
Updated: Jan 24

As the holidays come to an end, I find myself reflecting on what truly makes this time special. For me, the greatest gift isn’t wrapped in decorative paper with a shining bow - its the precious gift of acceptance and understanding from my family.
Many don’t realize the journey spellers undertake to share our thoughts and feelings with the world. Each letter, each word, represents not only communication, but a testament to our determination and growth. During the holidays, when families gather and stories are shared, having loved ones who patiently wait for us to spell our thoughts means everything.
My family recognizes the subtle signs when I want to contribute to a conversation. They have mastered the art of creating natural pauses in discussions that allow me the time to spell out my thoughts. They celebrate my progress not with grand gestures, but with genuine smiles and encouraging nods that speak volumes about their understanding and support.
My family’s unwavering support has transformed potentially challenging social gatherings into opportunities for connection and sharing. They’ve shown me that love isn’t measured by the speed of communication, but by the depth of understanding.
To other spellers out there: if you’re blessed with a supportive family like mine, treasure them. They are the ones who see beyond the method of communication to the person you truly are. And to the families who embrace and encourage their spelling loved ones: your acceptance and patience are the greatest gifts you could ever give. You make the holidays, and every day, a celebration of connection, progress, and unconditional love.
Always remember, it isn’t about the words spoken, but in the love expressed- whether through speech, spelling, or the silent understanding that binds families together. Happy Holidays, my friends.
Happy to learn that you had amazing holidays with your family.
You and your family are legends!
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